I realise that getting into a relationship during the period of 13 to 17 years old is a total waste of time. let's not talk bout when you were in primary lah. use your head. not that i've been in a relationship or what during my 16 years of life. but i thank god that i never had a girlfriend so far and i do not wish to have a girlfriend till i'm in college or maybe when i'm working. one thing's for sure is that having a girlfriend during our secondary life is a TOTAL waste of time. i mean... "sure" you will feel that when you have a girlfriend, it's like the best feeling that you ever had. someone to talk to before you go to bed. someone to say i love you to when most of you don't even know what is the true feeling and meaning of being in love. some of you claim that " oh... he/she is my one and only lover and when i'm with him or her i finally get the true meaning of true love" of course you guys will say that when you are in a relationship you dumb ass!!! But what happens when you guys are finished? will you say that about the same person again? hahaha . PUPPY LOVE they call it. yes... most of you do know that loving someone in high school is considered puppy love but some how or rather you guys will challenge the statement and go ahead with your little fairytale of ROMEO AND JULLIET. well frens... i'm sorry to say it but you are lost.
In actual fact, when you have a girlfriend in secondary life, it will not only affect your studies and also your emotions. At least 89% of the couples in secondary school will think that their relationship will last forever and that they will never be seperated. BULLSHIT!!! It's not as easy as you think and furthermore there are many things to consider. one thing is that, when you guys take your girlfriend on a date, who's money are you spending. your parent's money of course. Do you feel happy that you are wasting your parents money on somebody else's daughter? Do you think it's worth it that you spend so much money just so you can have the impermenant happiness that most teenagers search for when their hormones are raging? DO YOU? if you do then... go and hang yourself now. Sorry to rain down on your parade lah guys. another thing to consider is that when you guys break up which will eventually happen. it's just a matter of time. Whose feelings will get hurt? is it the girls or the boys? well... both will get hurt. don't think that guys are like macho beings all the time. you think that they don't give a damn bout the relationship but in actual fact they are already emotionally attached to it. and when a relationship has ended both parties will feel extremely sad and like keep on thinking of the good times and bad times they shared together as couples. and on the girls side if lets say the boy asks for a break up, the damage is even worse. the girl might lose herself. she will be like lost. can't eat , can't sleep and will gradually start to lose weight and then studies also neglected already. all of this over what... over that stupid bastard who broke up with her. and who's fault is it? it's both parties punya fault. who asked you guys to get into a relationship?
and when you break up during exam it's even worse. some bastards may even break up with their gf on the night before the big exams like pmr or spm. in the end what happens?:
bm fail
bi fail
add maths fail
modern maths fail ....... and so on( you get the idea)
so that's all i have to say and i count myself lucky that i realised this before it's too late. i'm lucky that i learned from other people's mistakes rather than making a mistake by myself. and i'm finally free of any attachments already because i don't like anyone already :D i'm so happy. and i hope this lasts until i collect my spm result. ok guys till next time and feel free to comment on how you feel bout relationships :D
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